Showing posts with label Dating. Show all posts
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Friday, December 28, 2012

Rev Up Romance in 2013!


Can't wait to learn how your love life will unfold in 2013? Find your Sun sign below -- and find love in the new year!

Aries
With Uranus in the sign of the Ram, independence is going to be crucial for you -- you won't want to compromise your desires! Venus floats through your love sector between August 16 - September 11, making it a ripe period for romance.

Taurus
Taskmaster planet Saturn in your love sector means that 2013 is a make-or-break moment for you -- the year you grow up and realize what you truly want. A commitment is certainly in the stars for you ... but only with a reliable partner.

Gemini
Jupiter in your sign until June boosts your confidence, helping you get out of your dating comfort zone. Venus helps you attract attention between October 7 - November 5, when a vacation romance -- or even falling for a foreigner -- is possible!

Cancer
You'll have Jupiter on your side by July, lending you courage to try new things in love. However, crossed wires may lead to misunderstandings under Mercury's extended influence during June and July, so beware.

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Leo
You've got Mars in your passion sector until February 2, meaning that the ball is in your court when it comes to relationships (potential or otherwise). If you want more from someone special, be upfront about it. Venus heightens romance for you throughout February.

Virgo
Neptune in your love house means that romance is creative and inspiring ... if a little vague. Trust what's real, but avoid getting swept up in a too-good-to-be-true fairytale. Venus on your side in March helps you attract romantic attention.

Libra
Uranus in your love house reinforces that relationships can be unpredictable, so remain flexible about romance by staying spontaneous with your dating plans. Anything is possible in love now, so dare to be different!

Scorpio
With serious Saturn in your sign, you're maturing by the week as you gain more clarity about boundaries in love. You know what you want -- and what you're prepared to do for it. Strength is sexy and will ensure that you don't waste time in the wrong relationship.

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Sagittarius
Luck-magnet Jupiter is embedded in your love house until June, bringing plenty of opportunities to enhance your love life throughout the first half of 2013. Exotic connections hold special appeal as your heart seeks adventure and new experiences.

Capricorn
Look for romance to blossom in July once optimistic Jupiter energizes your love sector. Take care of yourself and be patient throughout the first half of the year -- you'll have many dating and relationships choices by mid-summer.

Aquarius
Mars brings passion, heat, and fire into your love life between August 28 - October 15. Be bold about expressing your desires now. If you want something, don't be afraid to make the first move.

Pisces
Neptune in your sign brings out your creative and spiritual cravings. You're hoping for a storybook romance in 2013, so take advantage of love planet Venus' help in March, as well as between July 22 - August 16.

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Top New Years Resolutions for Singles


Top New Years Resolutions for Singles
Have you made your New Years resolutions yet, or are you still searching for one or two that resonate? Whether you are a single person looking for love or a person who loves being single,here are some New Years resolutions to explore and possibly adopt as your own.
1. New Years Resolution: Smile and Say "Hi" More Often
I can smile, chat, and amuse any guy I'm not interested in -- or any guy who approaches me. But, let me see a guy on the train, walking by, or across the room who causes that punch-to-my-stomach gasp, and I will go out of my way to avoid eye contact, not smile, and otherwise ignore him. I think it's a fear of rejection thing. Well, this resolution will increase my tolerance for rejection, while making me more approachable." - Rachelle Chase, erotic romance author and speaker, 44, San Francisco, CA, single and looking
2.New Years Resolution: Meet Other, Likeminded Singles
My New Year's resolution is to change my daily routine (i.e. different Starbucks, different location of gym, different time of day at gym, new classes (spin, bootcamp, etc). so that I meet new people and encounter new people. By changing my daily routine, I am more likely to meet new people and possibly meet new people to date doing the things I love to do." - Frank Mastronuzzi, 38, West Hollywood, CA, single.
3. New Years Resolution: Give Your Dates a Chance
Dr. Thea Lobell, Ph.D., a psychotherapist out of Baton Rouge, LA, believes that an important New Years resolution to make is that of giving people second chances. She clarifies: "Date someone two times before making a decision about the person. It's not uncommon for people to be extremely nervous on afirst date. Due to nerves, people are rarely able to highlight their strengths on a first encounter. Unless the person is blatantly offensive, give them the benefit of
 the doubt and go on asecond date."
4. New Years Resolution: Lose the Negativity
Says Arielle Ford, author ofThe Soulmate Secret, "Vow to give up the pity party and negative thinking about love, romance and dating. If you believe that there is enough air to breathe and water to drink, then I encourage you to believe there is more than enough love for you. Become a magnet for love this year. Start giving more of what you want to receive. More attention, more affection, more love and watch what happens!"
5. New Years Resolution: Get Specific
Dr. Colleen Long, Psy.D., also known as the Happiness Diva, suggests: "'You have to know where you are going, if you are actually going to get there.' This is a saying we have in the south which still holds true in the world of dating and relationships. Many times, people make the mistake of just taking whatever life throws their way. However, if we are to truly get what we want and desire, we must first articulate those things to ourselves. Start by sitting down and
making a list of the things you desire in a partner. They may start out very general such as,'must be attractive,' but soon they will start to develop into more specific to you items, like 'must
make me laugh until I cry.'"
6. New Years Resolution: Cultivate A Relationship With Yourself
I notice that many women including myself have set aside their career and personal goals for theirsignificant others. I was one of them. I have set myself back in terms of my success for many years applying all of my energy into relationships. My New Year's resolution: Love myself and take care of myself first prior to loving anyone else. If I am not happy with myself, I'll find myself in unhealthy and potentially destructive relationships. Like Carrie said in Sex in the City, 'The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.'" - Jeanine Swatton, author of Women Crossing Bridges, 35, Dublin, CA.
7. New Years Resolution: Set Relationship Boundaries
Promise to set boundaries with people who drain your time and energy – family, friends, people you may feel sorry for. Relationships need to be give and take. When they aren’t, they drain you and take away time you need for your own happiness and your true friends." -Carolyn Bushong, L.P.C., author of Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With.
8. New Years Resolution: Create Your Own Dating Rules
"As a single, 20-something in New York, I resolve to do what feels most true to my nature on all of my dates. For me, this often means forgetting about the rules that society dictates about how men and women should interact in the early stages of relationships. It means trusting my gut about when to become involved sexually, when it's okay to call, or when to tell a guy how strong (or weak) my feelings are. Ultimately, I resolve to do what I want!" - Rachel Russo,Marriageand Family Therapist Trainee and Professional Matchmaker.
9. New Years Resolution: Make a Plan
Megan L. Reese, a divorced and looking 39-year-old woman in West Grove, PA, suggests an innovative idea. "After five years of dating, relationships and bad experiences, I've decided to take a very proactive approach to dating this year. I am writing a business plan. As a business woman, every year I write a business plan that outlines my goals, strategies, time lines, etc. I thought, 'Why aren't I being this intentional in my personal life?' My 'Man Plan' includes a vision and mission statement, goals, marketing, budget, strategic partnerships and metrics for measuring my efforts."
10.New Years Resolution: Use Feng Shui To Increase Your Odds
An unusual twist on the New Year's resolution is to use energy cues to get you where you want to be, says Chriss Barr, a Feng Shui expert and owner ofPalm Beach Feng Shui. She expands: "The best thing you can do is to sit facing yourrelationship directionwhen you’re out to dinner or meeting someone new on a first date. In Feng Shui your relationship direction is based on your birthday and is unique to you. When you use your personal relationship direction you make a better connection with your partner and they’re more receptive to you. Another great idea is to wear colors associated with your personal relationship direction.

Monday, December 17, 2012

10 ways to make a woman fall in love with you


After you meet a woman and date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman fall in love with you, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your out look on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.
Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special.
3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to a higher level.
 4. Time spent with her is precious
Make it clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!
7. Learn what turns her on
And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she will adore you for it.
Don’t be possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her own person.
9. Thoughtful
You remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a particular entrĂ©e at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.
10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence!
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