Rev Up Romance in 2013!

Can't wait to learn how your love life will unfold in 2013? Find your Sun sign below -- and find love in the new year!

Aries
With Uranus in the sign of the Ram, independence is going to be crucial for you -- you won't want to compromise your desires! Venus floats through your love sector between August 16 - September 11, making it a ripe period for romance.

Taurus
Taskmaster planet Saturn in your love sector means that 2013 is a make-or-break moment for you -- the year you grow up and realize what you truly want. A commitment is certainly in the stars for you ... but only with a reliable partner.

Gemini
Jupiter in your sign until June boosts your confidence, helping you get out of your dating comfort zone. Venus helps you attract attention between October 7 - November 5, when a vacation romance -- or even falling for a foreigner -- is possible!

Cancer
You'll have Jupiter on your side by July, lending you courage to try new things in love. However, crossed wires may lead to misunderstandings under Mercury's extended influence during June and July, so beware.

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Leo
You've got Mars in your passion sector until February 2, meaning that the ball is in your court when it comes to relationships (potential or otherwise). If you want more from someone special, be upfront about it. Venus heightens romance for you throughout February.

Virgo
Neptune in your love house means that romance is creative and inspiring ... if a little vague. Trust what's real, but avoid getting swept up in a too-good-to-be-true fairytale. Venus on your side in March helps you attract romantic attention.

Libra
Uranus in your love house reinforces that relationships can be unpredictable, so remain flexible about romance by staying spontaneous with your dating plans. Anything is possible in love now, so dare to be different!

Scorpio
With serious Saturn in your sign, you're maturing by the week as you gain more clarity about boundaries in love. You know what you want -- and what you're prepared to do for it. Strength is sexy and will ensure that you don't waste time in the wrong relationship.

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Sagittarius
Luck-magnet Jupiter is embedded in your love house until June, bringing plenty of opportunities to enhance your love life throughout the first half of 2013. Exotic connections hold special appeal as your heart seeks adventure and new experiences.

Capricorn
Look for romance to blossom in July once optimistic Jupiter energizes your love sector. Take care of yourself and be patient throughout the first half of the year -- you'll have many dating and relationships choices by mid-summer.

Aquarius
Mars brings passion, heat, and fire into your love life between August 28 - October 15. Be bold about expressing your desires now. If you want something, don't be afraid to make the first move.

Pisces
Neptune in your sign brings out your creative and spiritual cravings. You're hoping for a storybook romance in 2013, so take advantage of love planet Venus' help in March, as well as between July 22 - August 16.

Casual dating - Should you split the bill while dating?

Dating can be both invigorating and intimidating for both men and women. Making the first move can be tough. It is no longer a hard-and-fast rule, like it was in the bygone days, that only a guy can ask a girl out. In the present day scenario where we talk endlessly amongst the sexes, women’s liberation and the emancipation of women, there should be no scope for any inequality when it comes to dating or when you are building a long-term relationship with a girl. If a girl finds a boy attractive or interesting, she too can make the first move.

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 Yes, women like their men to be chivalrous and charming at times like opening a door for them while entering a restaurant, offering them a seat before the man takes his position at the dining table etc. So after a romantic meal, when the bill arrives, do you always expect your man to pay? Wonder what happened to that talk about equality amongst the sexes etc.

 Your talk on women’s liberation goes down the drain if you expect your boyfriend to foot the bill every time you go out on a date. Do not always expect the man to pay. Splitting the bill while dating should be accepted as a natural act by men and especially women. There is no written rule which says that the man has to shell out his money whenever you eat out or sip a coffee at the nearest café.

 Matt, a freelance photographer in Paris feels that there is nothing more irritating than women who will not offer pay their share when they earn well enough.

 "They also have this obvious habit of toying with the food in their own plates, leaving 90 percent uneaten and eyeing covertly what I had ordered!" Most of

Matt’s dating experiences especially the ones which ended with a dinner or a dessert, have left him sceptical either about his date’s lack of appetite or her obvious shock when he has suggested the idea of splitting the bill.

Matt’s advice is, "Do not order food and drinks presuming we will pay. While we do not want you to be a glutton and stuff your mouth with both hands at the same time, we do like a girl with an appetite." He had an interesting anecdote to tell in this regard. "The real 'date from hell' wants to seem sophisticated and order by consulting only the right side of the menu. I once met somebody who ordered the most expensive sea food and then, when it arrived, she said ‘But today I am a vegetarian!" 

If possible, decide and communicate in the initial stages of dating if you plan to split the bill. If the girl plans to pay her share, it sets everything in place. There is no need to get uptight and enter into a scuffle if he insists on paying but be prepared to be fair. Order what you would like to eat or drink and if not hungry, say so in the beginning, not after your order has been placed in front of you. Even if you are paying for your share, it is rude to not eat after ordering.

Top New Years Resolutions for Singles

Top New Years Resolutions for Singles

Have you made your New Years resolutions yet, or are you still searching for one or two that resonate? Whether you are a single person looking for love or a person who loves being single,here are some New Years resolutions to explore and possibly adopt as your own.

1. New Years Resolution: Smile and Say "Hi" More Often

I can smile, chat, and amuse any guy I'm not interested in -- or any guy who approaches me. But, let me see a guy on the train, walking by, or across the room who causes that punch-to-my-stomach gasp, and I will go out of my way to avoid eye contact, not smile, and otherwise ignore him. I think it's a fear of rejection thing. Well, this resolution will increase my tolerance for rejection, while making me more approachable." - Rachelle Chase, erotic romance author and speaker, 44, San Francisco, CA, single and looking

2.New Years Resolution: Meet Other, Likeminded Singles

My New Year's resolution is to change my daily routine (i.e. different Starbucks, different location of gym, different time of day at gym, new classes (spin, bootcamp, etc). so that I meet new people and encounter new people. By changing my daily routine, I am more likely to meet new people and possibly meet new people to date doing the things I love to do." - Frank Mastronuzzi, 38, West Hollywood, CA, single.

3. New Years Resolution: Give Your Dates a Chance

Dr. Thea Lobell, Ph.D., a psychotherapist out of Baton Rouge, LA, believes that an important New Years resolution to make is that of giving people second chances. She clarifies: "Date someone two times before making a decision about the person. It's not uncommon for people to be extremely nervous on afirst date. Due to nerves, people are rarely able to highlight their strengths on a first encounter. Unless the person is blatantly offensive, give them the benefit of

 the doubt and go on asecond date."

4. New Years Resolution: Lose the Negativity

Says Arielle Ford, author ofThe Soulmate Secret, "Vow to give up the pity party and negative thinking about love, romance and dating. If you believe that there is enough air to breathe and water to drink, then I encourage you to believe there is more than enough love for you. Become a magnet for love this year. Start giving more of what you want to receive. More attention, more affection, more love and watch what happens!"

5. New Years Resolution: Get Specific

Dr. Colleen Long, Psy.D., also known as the Happiness Diva, suggests: "'You have to know where you are going, if you are actually going to get there.' This is a saying we have in the south which still holds true in the world of dating and relationships. Many times, people make the mistake of just taking whatever life throws their way. However, if we are to truly get what we want and desire, we must first articulate those things to ourselves. Start by sitting down and

making a list of the things you desire in a partner. They may start out very general such as,'must be attractive,' but soon they will start to develop into more specific to you items, like 'must

make me laugh until I cry.'"

6. New Years Resolution: Cultivate A Relationship With Yourself

I notice that many women including myself have set aside their career and personal goals for theirsignificant others. I was one of them. I have set myself back in terms of my success for many years applying all of my energy into relationships. My New Year's resolution: Love myself and take care of myself first prior to loving anyone else. If I am not happy with myself, I'll find myself in unhealthy and potentially destructive relationships. Like Carrie said in Sex in the City, 'The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.'" - Jeanine Swatton, author of Women Crossing Bridges, 35, Dublin, CA.

7. New Years Resolution: Set Relationship Boundaries

Promise to set boundaries with people who drain your time and energy – family, friends, people you may feel sorry for. Relationships need to be give and take. When they aren’t, they drain you and take away time you need for your own happiness and your true friends." -Carolyn Bushong, L.P.C., author of Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With.

8. New Years Resolution: Create Your Own Dating Rules

"As a single, 20-something in New York, I resolve to do what feels most true to my nature on all of my dates. For me, this often means forgetting about the rules that society dictates about how men and women should interact in the early stages of relationships. It means trusting my gut about when to become involved sexually, when it's okay to call, or when to tell a guy how strong (or weak) my feelings are. Ultimately, I resolve to do what I want!" - Rachel Russo,Marriageand Family Therapist Trainee and Professional Matchmaker.

9. New Years Resolution: Make a Plan

Megan L. Reese, a divorced and looking 39-year-old woman in West Grove, PA, suggests an innovative idea. "After five years of dating, relationships and bad experiences, I've decided to take a very proactive approach to dating this year. I am writing a business plan. As a business woman, every year I write a business plan that outlines my goals, strategies, time lines, etc. I thought, 'Why aren't I being this intentional in my personal life?' My 'Man Plan' includes a vision and mission statement, goals, marketing, budget, strategic partnerships and metrics for measuring my efforts."

10.New Years Resolution: Use Feng Shui To Increase Your Odds

An unusual twist on the New Year's resolution is to use energy cues to get you where you want to be, says Chriss Barr, a Feng Shui expert and owner ofPalm Beach Feng Shui. She expands: "The best thing you can do is to sit facing yourrelationship directionwhen you’re out to dinner or meeting someone new on a first date. In Feng Shui your relationship direction is based on your birthday and is unique to you. When you use your personal relationship direction you make a better connection with your partner and they’re more receptive to you. Another great idea is to wear colors associated with your personal relationship direction.

Best Dating Site for Younger Women Older Men Dating

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5 Tips on Older Guys Meeting Younger Women

If you find that you have more in common with younger people, you might want to expand your social circle to include people of varying ages. Music, sports, technology and film are all subjects that transcend the generations, so there's a lot that older guys have in common with younger folks. If you're interested in socializing with and getting to know women of a younger age, it's important to know where to look and how to meet them.

Find Places of Mutual Interest

It's one thing meeting younger women, but a different thing completely meeting younger women who may have an interest in meeting you. If you limit your search to the mall or any area that is stereotypically associated with young women, you'll limit your chances of sharing a mutual interest. Make a list of things that interest you that could also be of interest to younger women. Photography, cinema, modern art, literature are all plausible starting points. Attend events centered around these interests, where there is likely to be a diverse attendee age range.

Inhabit Neutral Areas

People are more inclined to strike up conversation when they feel safe. That's why you're more likely to chat to someone in a cafe than you are at a bus station in the middle of nowhere. Spend as much of your free time as possible in places that attract a mix of age groups. Don't look for places that attract only young women, because you'll stand out. Cafes, book stores, gymnasiums, sports clubs and art galleries are age-neutral and sex-neutral.

Make Yourself Approachable

Use props for talking points. Carry a book or a copy of today's newspaper with you. Don't wear sunglasses unless you really have to. Don't wear headphones. Smile at passers-by and sit facing into the space, rather than with your back to people.

Start Conversations With Younger People

This doesn't just mean young women. Make an effort to engage with younger people of both sexes on a regular basis. You may hit it off with some of the guys at the gym. This could lead to an invite to a party or to join them and their friends at a bar. Not only do you then get to meet a nice mix of young guys and ladies, but the fact that you were invited serves as an endorsement to the group. Take opportunities wherever you get them. If a passer-by drops his wallet, hand it back and say "that's a lovely wallet". You may just get a "thanks" in return, but you may also strike up a conversation.

Use a Dating Site

Make your age and desire to meet younger women very clear. It's possible that some women will be looking specifically for an older gentleman. This approach cuts out a lot of uncertainty and is much more direct.

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Problems With Older Men Dating Younger Women

While many women find older men attractive dating partners, a relationship with an older guy will not always be a perfect situation. Different people have different needs, and you must make sure that your guy is capable of meeting your physical, emotional and mental needs. Clear communication is key to any relationship, and if you feel that problems are arising with your older guy, address the situation directly. 

Cultural Differences

Depending on the age of your older guy, he may have grown up in an entirely different decade than you did. As a result of the age difference, he may like different music, books, movies and television shows. Your interests may be completely different, and the two of you may have a difficult time connecting on a shared activity. When talking, he may make references to shows or events that you don't even remember, so it could be hard to find common discussion ground.

Not Ready To Commit

If you are looking to settle down and have a family, an older man may not be the right choice for you. He could have been previously married, and now he is hesitant to pursue a serious relationship. Or, even if he is open to marriage, he may already have children and not be interested in having more. An older man may feel that he's already put in his time raising children and may not be interested in starting the process once more.

He Wants To Teach

If you feel like your older guy spends most of the time trying to teach you about life and, specifically, your choices in life, then you need to evaluate the relationship. Just because you're younger, it doesn't mean that you need to be schooled by your guy. Some older men feel that they have more knowledge about life based on their experience, and they spend too much time trying to mentor their partners instead of actually being in an equal relationship.

He Really Only Likes Younger Woman

If your older guy only dates women who are twenty-five or younger, then you need to find out exactly why this is the case. Eventually, you won't be twenty-five. Will he stop dating you at that point? If you think that your older guy is just constantly trading in for a new model when it comes to women, then this should be a big area of concern for you. You don't want to be his young flavor of the week.

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The Advantages of Older Men Dating Younger Women?

For older men, dating younger women can have many perks and vice versa. While there is some taboo over older men dating younger, there are pluses that can make this an attractive pairing for both. Whether you are an older man considering dating a younger woman, or the other way around, learning some of the benefits of this kind of relationship can help you make the decision to date outside your age bracket.
Physical Benefits

A woman who is younger than you is most likely also more active than you. For this reason, dating a younger woman can have numerous physical perks. You might find you lose weight with the increase in activity your younger lady provides, you tone up, and your heart and body will generally be healthier. Even your mind can benefit from physical activity, as it generates endorphins in your brain which are associated with good feelings.
Family Planning
If you're an older man who hasn't settled down to have kids yet but still have hopes for a family, dating a younger woman can increase your chances. As women get older, theirability to conceiveand carry a child goes down, especially when they've reached their mid-30's. This isn't to say middle-aged women can't have children, but if having a family is a major priority then older women who have passed their reproductive years might not be for you.

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Maturity Differences
For both young women dating older men and older men dating younger women, the differences in maturity have benefits. From a young woman's view, an older man is more mature than the men in her age group. Older men who have had more life experience might also be willing to settle down and commit faster than a younger man who still has a lot to try in the world. For an older man, the youthful maturity of a younger woman can be refreshing.
Perspective Differences
Another perk of dating a younger woman or an older man is that you can get a different perspective on the world. For an older man who thinks he might have seen everything, dating a younger woman can give him a fresh outlook and might influence him to try things he hasn't done. For a younger woman, an older man can be a person to look to for advice and wisdom, and he can give a bigger picture of how life is through his experiences

10 ways to make a woman fall in love with you

After you meet a woman and date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman fall in love with you, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.

1. Display maturity

It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your out look on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.

2. Romance her

Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special.

3. Faithful

Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to a higher level.
 4. Time spent with her is precious

Make it clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!

5. Compliment her

You don’t have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.

6. Laughter

Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!

7. Learn what turns her on

And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she will adore you for it.

8. Give her space

Don’t be possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her own person.

9. Thoughtful

You remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.

10. “I love you”

And of course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence!

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6 Tips for Women Looking for Older Men

There are a lot of tips for women that happen to be looking for older men. You will find that a lot of women that look for older men will end up not knowing what they are doing or what exactly you are looking for. If you are setting your sights on an older man, then make sure that you understand what your expectations are and what you hope to get out of the relationship. So many women that go looking for an older man to date think that it will be fun and easy. Make sure that you prepare yourself for the road ahead.

Age Limit

It is a good idea for you to set an age limit. Make sure that you know how old is too old and how young is too young. A lot of women won’t prepare themselves for what they are looking for when it comes to age. Just because you want an older man does not necessarily mean that you have it figured out. Think about how much older you will want him to be than you. This will definitely help you along in your searches of finding an older man that you can be with.

Reasons

You need to consider your reasons for being with an older man. If you want to be with an older man because he will be more financially stable, then make sure that the men that you seek are ones that you know for sure will be able to provide this to you. If you are looking for a man that is more emotionally mature and available, then make sure the man that you end up with is one that can provide this to you. Just because a man is older doesn’t mean that he can give you what you want any better than a younger man.

Assumptions

You will need to make sure that you are ready to roll with the punches when it comes to the assumptions that will be made about your relationship with this man. You will more than likely get judged by his family and his children if he has any. It can be difficult to be in a relationship with a person that is a lot older or younger than you because you will more than likely have to explain yourselves a lot.

Expectations

Make sure that you know what your expectations are for this relationship. You may end up needing to go over this with yourself before you go over it with him. Knowing what you want is something that an older man can definitely appreciate and admire.

Where to Look

If you are looking for older men, then there are plenty of dating sites that can provide this to you. Make sure that you go with a site that lines up with what your expectations of the relationship are.

Relationship

Be prepared to have to work for this relationship even harder than others. It can be really difficult to connect with a partner that is of a different generation than you. So once you’ve considered this, then you can decide if mature dating is really for you?

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Older Man Younger Woman Relationships and Dating

Ever watched the movie ‘Autumn in New York’? It epitomizes a fair bit of the confusion, pain and angst, yet the beauty and wonder that an older man-younger woman relationship goes through. Much has been written and even more debated about whether such unions make sense. There have been many successful May-December pairings right from Hollywood (Harrison Ford-Calista Flockhart, Michael Douglas-Catherine Zeta-Jones) to those that one encounters in everyday life.

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What attracts the younger woman to the older man? And the older man to the younger woman?

Society often likes to pass judgments and compartmentalize the reasons for an older man-younger woman relationship as ‘She’s in it for his money and/or he’s in it for the sex’. But it doesn’t necessarily hold true in many cases.

A younger woman may be attracted to an older man for many reasons, among them…

Maturity

Younger women often complain that guys their age aren’t mature enough. It’s a known fact that on the whole girls mature faster than boys, and even as adults in a certain age bracket, say the 20’s, women tend to be the more mature than their male counterparts. Guys their age often act like overgrown boys and seem to want to spend more time watching football matches and at the local watering hole, rather than talking to their woman or spending some quiet time together. So why not turn to an older man who would probably be more interested in similar pursuits and mature conversations?

Father figure

To some younger women, either from divorced homes or who have lost their father at a young age, it is an unconscious need to fulfill their longing for a father figure in their lives. While many discount this theory, it still does hold weight and has been found to be true in a number of cases.

Indulgent

Older men are often more tolerant and understanding than the younger generation of males. They can be generous – both as lovers and materially too. And women, who always love to be cosseted, can get an enormous kick out of being cared for and indulged.

Experienced

Most older men, simply by virtue of having ‘been there, done that’ are worldly wise and can offer invaluable advice to a younger, more inexperienced woman. Again, as lovers, what they may lack in terms of the energy and drive of a younger man, they can more than make up for in skill and expertise.

All that she embodies

Older men find younger women full of vitality and life, with a sense of adventure that an older woman, who tends to be more set in her ways, lacks. They are more eager to adapt and are more flexible.

Respect for him

Quite often an older man finds himself at the receiving end of a great deal of admiration and awe from the younger woman. Unlike women who are his peers, a younger woman may hold him in high esteem and defer to his opinion since he has years of wisdom to fall back on. Of course he enjoys this feeling of being idolized.

Physical reasons

Sometimes, older men realize rather late in life that they would still like to be parents and most often women who are closer to their age are either past their childbearing years or don’t have the desire to still bear children. In younger women they can realize their aspirations for a family. She also makes him feel younger, a sense of reliving his youthful days. Also, if the older man is in prime physical condition and younger women still find him attractive, in typical male style he probably figures why go for prunes if you can have a juicy plum or a peach?!

The reasons for either party entering into an older man- younger woman relationship however, doesn’t always make it work or make it ideal for the couple in question. In fact, many such relationships have often encountered problems, not least among them insecurities (older man is afraid younger woman is no longer happy with him and actually has her sights set on hot, young neighbor), uncertainties about the future (younger woman fearing she’ll be left alone or a widow when he dies), feeling like misfits (often they find they can’t gel with each other’s group of friends due to age differences and conflicting interests), or simply the younger woman sometimes getting tired of making all the adjustments because the older man is set in his ways.

But again, which relationship doesn’t have it’s share of problems and obstacles. While some are of the view that an age difference only exacerbates some of the typical problems inherent in a relationship, that does not necessarily hold true in all cases. As in any relationship, age only becomes a matter of numbers if ultimately the older man and younger woman, are both adult enough to enter into a consensual union, you have mutual respect for each other, the age difference doesn’t matter – at least to both of you (and you’re couldn’t care less about what society thinks) and you’ve found something in this relationship that satisfies you like no other has! 

Younger women dating Older men

It is a known fact that women, in general, are attracted to older men and will date men that are a few years older than themselves. If a woman is thirty, she'll probably date a man in his forties and so on. So what is it that draws women to these older guys?

Most women will admit that they want a strong man who can stand his own ground and be confident; and generally speaking, many women appreciate the maturity of an older man. It's no secret that the qualities that women are looking for in their future husbands are the same qualities that men slightly older than them display. Most women assume that older men are well trained at being a gentleman, are more civilized and more capable of providing for and supporting whoever they are with. They also feel older men have probably been married or at least have gone through a lot of different relationships, have learned how to treat a woman and how to give her what she wants and/or needs.

When it comes to dating younger men, many women feel that these guys still have a sense of immaturity about them and that they don't know what it means to really treat a woman. It’s a well-known fact that women mature faster than men, and if a woman wants to date an older guy, it's probably because she's had her fill of the 23-year-old party animal who still believes he’s invincible and can't even remember her name. Mature, younger women, who are no longer interested in dealing with the games and attitudes of younger guys appreciate an older man's life experiences and the fact that they're over many of the games they may have played in their younger years. Also, if a younger woman is ready to start a family, she feels older men might settle down sooner.

In the discussion of older men younger women dating, there are some women who will argue that older men only ask them out because they take longer to grow up and mature or only want a trophy girlfriend on their arm to boost their ego. Another argument to dating younger women is that older men miss out on meeting a mature, wise and appreciative woman their own age. While this may be true in some cases, in reality, most older men who date younger women do so because they feel that women younger than them have more energy, spontaneity and less dating baggage. They simply want to feel rejuvenated and youthful again and make their sex life more adventurous.
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The real disadvantages to this type of relationship for an older man dating a younger woman is that there may be a difference in the energy levels between the two of them. The age difference can cause a big difference in interests such as music, social activities and morals. If an older man doesn't keep up with the younger woman or perhaps loses his financial stability and/or health, a gold digger might lose interest in him and leave him rather quickly.

Ultimately, older men dating younger women must be able to deal with the attitudes of others who stare, those who comment about the age difference, the negative attitudes of those who just disapprove, and the many other challenges they may be faced with. Older men younger women dating can be wonderful as long as both of you know what you are looking for and where you want to go with it before you get too involved.