After you meet a woman and date her,
you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may
even find yourself falling in love with her. But her feelings may still remain a
mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right. How can
you get her to fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman
fall in love with you, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about
you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature
faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act.
Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your out look on the whole.
Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your
career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when
disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.
Make her feel good by keeping the
romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money
doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts,
but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your
relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just
to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be
attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special.
3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you
have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense
your commitment to her and your relationship. Being able to trust someone and
truly rely on him is a very powerful feeling. So many people profess deep
feelings and then cheat on their partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that
she can count on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it
takes the relationship to a higher level.
4. Time spent with her is
precious
Make it clear that you really
treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing
together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to
meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had something else lined up,
cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her to the exclusion of
everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something you care about to
be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your
buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely
reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like
shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the
process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over the top
always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a
lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere,
well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves hearing that
she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose its charm
eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it.
Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on,
appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all
these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient
feel ten feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest ally. If
she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again, you’re rapidly
becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re aiming for. It’s not about
making her laugh over your one-liners and finding you hilarious. It’s more about
being on the same wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of humor too. Or
finding humor in similar situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which
you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a
smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great
feeling!
7. Learn what turns her
on
And use it to advantage. Find out
just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Don’t ever
push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see
the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if she
decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she
understands that while your desires for her are strong, you will respect the
limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for
it. Women love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you
willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t
always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make her
feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she will adore you
for it.
Don’t be possessive and make her
account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t
expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too.
Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of spending every waking
moment that they can manage together, and in the process, alienate themselves
from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her own person.
9. Thoughtful
You remember little things she told
you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once
mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up
with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a
particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you
order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her
and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.
10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should give her the message,
there’s a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want
to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words. If it's
too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could feel so
deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the right moment, but
making every small moment count. You don’t have to wait only till you’re kissing
her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected makes it all the more
precious. She might be telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you
– tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being interrupted
mid-sentence!
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