If you find that you have more in
common with younger people, you might want to expand your social circle to
include people of varying ages. Music, sports, technology and film are all
subjects that transcend the generations, so there's a lot that older guys have
in common with younger folks. If you're interested in socializing with and
getting to know women of a younger age, it's important to know where to look
and how to meet them.
Find
Places of Mutual Interest
It's one thing meeting younger
women, but a different thing completely meeting younger women who may have an
interest in meeting you. If you limit your search to the mall or any area that
is stereotypically associated with young women, you'll limit your chances of
sharing a mutual interest. Make a list of things that interest you that could
also be of interest to younger women. Photography, cinema, modern art,
literature are all plausible starting points. Attend events centered around
these interests, where there is likely to be a diverse attendee age range.
Inhabit
Neutral Areas
People are more inclined to
strike up conversation when they feel safe. That's why you're more likely to
chat to someone in a cafe than you are at a bus station in the middle of
nowhere. Spend as much of your free time as possible in places that attract a
mix of age groups. Don't look for places that attract only young women, because
you'll stand out. Cafes, book stores, gymnasiums, sports clubs and art
galleries are age-neutral and sex-neutral.
Make
Yourself Approachable
Use props for talking points.
Carry a book or a copy of today's newspaper with you. Don't wear sunglasses
unless you really have to. Don't wear headphones. Smile at passers-by and sit facing
into the space, rather than with your back to people.
Start
Conversations With Younger People
This doesn't just mean young
women. Make an effort to engage with younger people of both sexes on a regular
basis. You may hit it off with some of the guys at the gym. This could lead to
an invite to a party or to join them and their friends at a bar. Not only do
you then get to meet a nice mix of young guys and ladies, but the fact that you
were invited serves as an endorsement to the group. Take opportunities wherever
you get them. If a passer-by drops his wallet, hand it back and say
"that's a lovely wallet". You may just get a "thanks" in
return, but you may also strike up a conversation.
Use a
Dating Site
Make your age and desire to meet
younger women very clear. It's possible that some women will be looking
specifically for an older gentleman. This approach cuts out a lot of
uncertainty and is much more direct.
TIP: Agemeet.com has many members looking for age gap relationships. Search by age, filter by zip code.
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